Conflict Resolution
 

John Gottman, Ph.D.

Most marital conflicts never get resolved. People either adapt to them and cope with them or they don't. When you pick somebody to marry, when you make a commitment to somebody, you've automatically inherited your set of relationship problems that have no solution that you'll have the for the next ten, twenty, thirty, forty, fifty years of your life together.


Nancy Fisher

Well, if you stop to think about, it all arguments are about who's right. No matter what it is. So if you stop to think about it, that's a dumb thing to argue about. Most of the time when people have arguments they can't remember how it started or what dumb little think it started over. It's how it escalated So hopefully it's better to be kind than to be right.